Camping October 24, 2025

Pfeiffer Big Sur Family Camping: A Single Mom's Guide to Reconnecting with Nature

Driving into Pfeiffer Big Sur State Park, I felt a mix of apprehension and excitement. This was our first camping trip since the divorce, a chance to reconnect with Liam and Chloe and create new memories. The towering redwoods cast long, dancing shadows as the late afternoon sun struggled to penetrate the canopy. The car filled with the earthy scent of damp soil and the sharp, clean fragrance of redwood needles. I hoped this trip, a budget-friendly Big Sur camping adventure, would be exactly what we needed.

Finding Our Slice of Paradise: Campsite #42

Navigating to campsite #42 was surprisingly easy. The park's layout is well-marked, and a map provided at the entrance made it a breeze. The location, nestled near the Big Sur River, was perfect. However, setting up the tent solo while wrangling an energetic 8-year-old and a slightly-too-cool-for-camping 12-year-old proved…challenging.

Elena struggling to set up the tent with Liam and Chloe attempting to “help.” Capture the scene with a wide-angle lens, emphasizing the vastness of the redwoods surrounding them. Focus on Elena's determination and the children's playful energy. Overcast lighting.

Embracing Fire Restrictions and Bear Safety

California's drought meant strict fire restrictions were in place. No campfire? No problem! I adapted by bringing a propane stove for cooking, which was surprisingly convenient. To create a cozy ambiance, I strung up solar-powered fairy lights around our campsite. It wasn’t the crackling fire I had envisioned, but it was magical in its own way.

Bear safety is paramount in Pfeiffer Big Sur State Park. All food and scented items must be stored in the provided bear-resistant lockers. California State Parks emphasizes this for the safety of both campers and wildlife. We had a slightly comical near-miss with a curious raccoon that was definitely eyeing our stash of marshmallows. Let's just say Liam learned the importance of properly latching the locker doors very quickly.

Upclose photo of the bear safe food locker with bear safety warning posted on it.

Campground Amenities: Bathrooms and Showers

The bathroom and shower facilities were relatively clean, considering the high volume of campers. However, be warned: there were long lines for the showers during peak hours (between 7 am and 9 am). I recommend showering during off-peak times to avoid the wait.

Exploring Pfeiffer Big Sur State Park with Kids: Hiking, Rock Hunting, and Photography

Pfeiffer Big Sur is a paradise for nature lovers, offering a variety of family-friendly activities.

Hiking the Pfeiffer Falls Trail

We started our exploration with a hike on the Pfeiffer Falls Trail. The trail winds through lush greenery and offers stunning views of the falls. Even Chloe, who initially complained about "no Wi-Fi," was captivated by the scenery. The trail is moderately challenging, making it a great option for families with older children. There were some muddy spots, so wear appropriate shoes.

A Landscape photo of the Pfeiffer Falls, taken on an overcast day to emphasize the shadows.

Liam's Rockhounding Adventure in the Big Sur River

Liam, my budding rock hound, was in his element exploring the Big Sur River. He spent hours sifting through pebbles, searching for treasures. His excitement was contagious when he discovered a quartz crystal sparkling in the sunlight. It was definitely the highlight of his trip. Big Sur rockhounding with kids is a fantastic activity!

Liam sifting through pebbles in the Big Sur River, holding up a quartz crystal with a huge smile. Capture the scene with shallow depth of field, blurring the background and focusing on Liam's face and the crystal. Golden hour lighting.

Chloe's Photography Journey at Pfeiffer Beach

A day trip to Pfeiffer Beach is a must! The beauty of Keyhole Arch at sunset is breathtaking. Chloe, with her keen eye for composition, spent hours experimenting with long exposure photography to capture the light filtering through the arch. It was inspiring to see her passion come alive in such a stunning setting. These Big Sur family photography spots are unforgettable.

Chloe setting up her camera at Pfeiffer Beach, silhouetted against the sunset. Capture the scene with a wide-angle lens, capturing the dramatic sky and the iconic Keyhole Arch. Use long exposure to capture the light filtering through the arch. Dramatic sunset lighting.

Pfeiffer Big Sur: Making the most of your camp spot.

Upon arrival it's very important to make sure you understand where you're going, as well as any details that pertain to your camp spot. The number for the spot should be easily seen and displayed for you.

Photo of the camp spot number sign.

Single Parent Camping Tips: Embrace the Adventure!

To all the single parents out there hesitant to embark on a solo camping trip with your kids: Do it! It's an incredible opportunity for bonding and creating lasting memories. Planning a Pfeiffer Big Sur camping trip with kids might seem daunting, but it’s absolutely achievable.

Here are a few tips for success:

Plan Ahead: Make reservations well in advance, especially during peak season. Recreation.gov is the official website for booking campsites at Pfeiffer Big Sur State Park.
Pack Smart: Create a detailed packing list, including essentials like a tent, sleeping bags, cooking supplies, and bear-resistant containers. A camping checklist for single parents can be a lifesaver!
Involve Your Kids: Let your children help with the planning and packing. This will make them feel more invested in the trip.
Be Prepared for Challenges: Things might not always go according to plan. Embrace the unexpected and remember that the most important thing is to spend quality time together.
Embrace the Simplicity: Disconnect from technology and reconnect with nature. Enjoy the simple pleasures of camping: hiking, exploring, and stargazing.

The Therapeutic Power of Nature

This trip to Pfeiffer Big Sur was more than just a vacation; it was a healing experience. The therapeutic benefits of nature are undeniable. We laughed, we explored, and we reconnected. It was a reminder that even after a challenging chapter in life, new adventures and new memories are always possible. Camping after divorce with kids can be an incredibly powerful way to rebuild and move forward.

A candid shot of Elena, Liam, and Chloe laughing and embracing each other around their campsite, solar lights twinkling in the background. Capture the scene with a shallow depth of field, blurring the background and focusing on their faces. Warm, soft lighting.

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